Friday, February 05, 2010

My First Rated R movie experience


This post is dedicated to Fun Dip. I love Fun Dip. It was the premier candy for every 12 year old...and I would eat one of the candy sticks before I shotgunned the candy powder...and then I would eat the second candy stick.

It was 1992. I was wearing Reebok Pumps. I may have drank a Crystal Clear Pepsi that afternoon. I remember that Saturday vividly (well, ok not vividly).

My friend, Barry, and I wanted to go to the movies. I still love the movie theaters. There's something about getting lost for a couple of hours in a story. I love it. This particular afternoon, Barry's mom offered to take us to the movies. We both jumped at the notion. We didn't know what we were going to see, but it was the movies, right? Let's go!

So we load in their awesome Ford van (I think it was when the Windstar first came out?), drove down 24/27 in Albemarle to the Eastgate Cinemas (they actually have a website now LOL). Now, the Eastgate Cinema was the only option in Albemarle at the time. I don't know if they have another option today, but the one we had was run by a lady who reminded me of Kathy Bates in Misery (see right, and you can obviously see I have seen move rated R movies since 1992 LOL), but add about 30 years. She was mean. She was the lord over the 6 screen theater. She always wore a dark mid calf cotton skirt that made a "hissing sound" when she walked...that added to her meanness.

So we get there, and Barry's mom looks at us and says: "I am going to see The Last of the Mohicans. You two can come and see that or go see something else." The opportunity to see a rated R movie was both exciting, scary, and exhilarating to me, a 12 year old "churched kid." In fact, it was so scary, that I remember walking in the theater with my FunDip and Cherry Coke wondering if anyone would see me and tell my mom. I would have probably acted like I walked into the wrong theater or something stupid, but no one knew. I always wondered if mom knew, though. I figure now that she probably did, but I felt a sense of accomplishment nonetheless.

So we're there...watching Daniel Day Lewis and his brother and father continue the Mohican legacy. I remember the emotion and fear I felt when he shot the translator in the head so he wouldn't have to be burned alive (spoiler). I was in amazement. That movie was so good. Since then, I have watched it several times, and it still makes me reminisce of the "newness" of real movie magic for the first time.

I remember, at 12, thinking: "Man, that guy (the translator) saved everyone's lives. He actually sacrificed himself for everyone! He did something like what Jesus did!" No lie...I made that connection (like I said, I was a "churched kid"). I also thought about how awesome it was that the one chick threw herself off a cliff at the end (no redemptive thoughts there, but a spoiler if you haven't seen it).

Since then, I have seen, maybe over 100 different phenomenal movies. Tonight, we watched District 9 on DVD. It is always an experience and I am always a bit taken back when I see redemptive themes in art. I like to think that, even at age 12, I noticed some important things in the movies. It certainly makes me grateful for good art. Excellence in art can, most of the time, weave redemptive messages and themes in its message. Many times, these themes show glimpses of God's Kingdom.

I am grateful for folks like Tim Stevens who write books like Pop Goes the Church. They make me confident that I do catch glimpses of redemption (and the content of this book makes me feel that I'm not crazy). I can see God in all of creation. I always have a choice to make, a picture to interpret, and a journey to experience. So, I wonder...what have you seen lately, either in a theater or in the comfort of your own home, that has spoken to you? What music have you been listening to that stirs your soul to something big? Maybe your experience points to something deeper...Maybe you can find traces of redemption in your own movie history...

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Random quotes by my pregnant wife (part 1)

Tonight, my wife made some statements that I found funny. Part of the humor here is that there is really no context...they just kind of "happened"...mostly in the car ride home from dinner.
I may have more in the future...I don't know. But for now, enjoy:

"I'm gonna need you to just love me while I'm wild and weird."

"We're gonna be parents like, forever."

"I'm gonna lean back and give the kid some room."

"I'm a lazy walker."

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Just Asking...

I am an a coaching network led by Tim Stevens at GCC that meets monthly until May (we began last fall). Today, we were talking about vision, and Mark Beeson was leading one of the discussions. He was talking about the excitement and thrill of answering the question" "What would it look like if God answered the prayers for the direction of our church?" We then discussed the notion of open sourced vision casting, per Mark's passionate descriptions.

I thought about that quite a bit since I heard it. I have digested it, and wonder, what WOULD it look like for God to answer not only the prayers for our church, but our community as well? What if we (the church) open sourced vision as the church to answer the prayers of the community around us? What if we listened to what they had to say? What if we leaned in past where we're comfortable? What if the Kingdom of God was more audible? What if we put our ear down to the ground and intentionally discovered a new rumble? What if we really organized our church in a way that brought the Kingdom of God and answered prayer?

One thing I am proud of regarding this whole discussion: our church is very involved in answering some prayers. I'm not indicating we do everything right, but we are definitely making a dent. We're housing the homeless this first week of February. If you go to ALC, you have an opportunity to make a dent. Volunteer...go here and let us know you're available. Just put your info along with "I want to help with Winter Relief" in the message box. We'll get in touch with you quickly.

What if? Open sourced visioning. Think about it!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Haiti


Images show the crushed dreams and lives of a nation swallowed by devastation. Our prayers are with the Haitian people and so should our sacrificial support. Will you consider giving what you spend on one meal? That adds up to $18 Chinese take out for me and Shauna tonight. Pray about it, you may even give a week's worth of meals. It isn't more money being paid, it's more sacrifice.

You can give here at our ALC website. All contributions go directly to Convoy of Hope, who has an already strong presence on the ground (you can also give directly at their website). I have personally worked with Convoy events in the past, and have full confidence in their partnership. Make sure you indicate Haiti Relief in the giving information section. Of course, you can also visit organizations like World Relief and Red Cross. Anything you give to these orgs will be awesome.

I don't smoke marijuana and I don't want to...

This is seriously one of the funniest clips I have seen in a while.
I love the final 3-4 secs.

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Boundaries and Gratitude

Happy new year. This is my first blog of 2010, and I have some high hopes. I feel like I am on the edge of something very cool...in every way.

I have never been very good at setting boundaries for myself, but I have done well with boundaries. Confused? Here's what I mean: I don't really disengage very well. My job and my home life seem to overlap a lot. And I am okay with that. I really can't segregate my life into different sections (husband, pastor, bill payer, sexy beast, etc.). I have to be the same person all the time. In the same way, though, I have become very good at (I believe) managing my time and setting boundaries regarding time with my wife and friends. I really think I have a great balance for me that makes no sense for anyone else. I really am happy with how it is all managed.

Now, let's throw a kid into the mix! In June, we'll welcome our little one into this world, and my boundaries are sure to be tested again. To set myself up for that, I am beginning a new habit regarding my time (thanks to some teaching by Craig G.): meetings that can't be scheduled during the work day are scheduled PRIOR to the work day...early mornings. I am two weeks into this new discipline, and (right now, anyway) I am really digging it. I am determined to make sure my son (or daughter) has a father in the evenings, and only I can hold that sacred. I am going to do my best!

Today, I had a great early morning meeting with DJ. DJ is our new director of arts at ALC. She is taking on the leadership of four major teams in Creative Arts. I am excited. DJ is solid, and I believe she will bring a fresh direction for us while affirming everyone around her...she is a natural nurturer.
So, I am grateful...this early morning thing has some good omens so far : )

And, again...Happy New Year twelve days late.

After all, children should not have to save up for their parents, but parents for their children.
2 Corinthians 12:14

BTW, I hope Conan goes to FOX and makes millions.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Christmas Eve traditions and fusion

I have a few random thoughts as we get ready to celebrate Christmas:
  • Empire Strikes Back is on Spike TV right now...was one of my fav movies as a kid, esp when Han Solo gets frozen
  • Our church has 2 great Christmas Eve Celebrations. I am really jazzed and looking forward to it. I have ben a part of Christmas stuff for church before, I am for real about this one. It is special.
  • Lately I have noticed the fusion of different things to create some awesome experiences: pumpkin cheesecake, coconut and chocolate, Candlelight and singing, friends and family, Sriachi hot sauce and anything, The Killers and Elton John, and Google Map navigation and my cell phone.
  • I have been consistent in my Bible reading as of late (thanks to my cell). The plan I am reading in has me in Job, Habakuk, and Revelation. Needless to say I am sick of hearing about God's judgment. I am a bit confused as to how to apply these words I have been reading (and I went to seminary, I know the context).
  • Darth Vader just told Luke he is his father.
  • After the first of the year, I have three huge things happening in the spring: travel for coaching network, plan for Easter, take 23 people to Kenya.
  • I am having a kid in June. Shauna and I are starting to agree on names (although she wont budge on Rocco).
  • I really don't like the new AT&T commercials with Luke Wilson.
  • I really do like the freecreditreport.com commercials, but I will never go to that website.
  • Our checking account was attacked. We need some prayer for resolution. We're grateful that we are OK regardless of the mean theives.
  • Shauna is more ADHD than me now. Pregnancy has officially made us the most ADHD couple on the face of the planet. Focus is laughable. God help our child LOL.
  • I work with some awesome people. Big shout outs to Missy, Kimberly, Kim, and Aaron...what a great last week in the office.
  • I work for a great leader. thanks, Dan for letting me lead and believing in me. Your advice and friendship makes this much more than a job.
  • I miss my family. Christmas is going to be a great recharge.
  • I want to see Avatar. I will see it this coming week. I may take a day and spend it at the movie theater. That woudl be awesome.
  • My sister is coming back with us to Baltimore. She's staying a week. I want to manipulate her to live with us and she knows it. She is very cool.
  • 2009 showed me that God provides when I dont understand, snow can actually make a honda not move, and miracles happen everyday.
  • I am reading a Mark Steele book called Christianish and I really like it.
  • I am also reading Narcisistic Leadership and finishing Deliberate Simplicity. I got bored with George Carlin's autobiography with about 40 pages left. I doubt I will pick it back up. Was funny and good, just got too long and boring toward the end.
  • I really love my wife. I love her more than I did when we got married. I am glad she is going to be the mother of our children.
  • I am not checking this blog for typos.
  • I have watched a lot of good television over the past six weeks. The Office, Community, Man Vs Food, and Football have been awesome.
  • I lost to John Sheffield in the playoffs AGAIN in Fantasy Football even though I had a better team. No matter what he says, my team was better.
  • I am going to start running again once we get back to Balto. I had a good 12 weeks in a row of running 5 mornings a week. I need to get back on that wagon. I feel better when I work out.
I may not blog much over the holidays, but you can certainly keep up woth my short updates HERE and on FB. I like to post random pictures on there.

Taking risks is cool.
N