Boundaries and Gratitude

Happy new year. This is my first blog of 2010, and I have some high hopes. I feel like I am on the edge of something very cool...in every way.

I have never been very good at setting boundaries for myself, but I have done well with boundaries. Confused? Here's what I mean: I don't really disengage very well. My job and my home life seem to overlap a lot. And I am okay with that. I really can't segregate my life into different sections (husband, pastor, bill payer, sexy beast, etc.). I have to be the same person all the time. In the same way, though, I have become very good at (I believe) managing my time and setting boundaries regarding time with my wife and friends. I really think I have a great balance for me that makes no sense for anyone else. I really am happy with how it is all managed.

Now, let's throw a kid into the mix! In June, we'll welcome our little one into this world, and my boundaries are sure to be tested again. To set myself up for that, I am beginning a new habit regarding my time (thanks to some teaching by Craig G.): meetings that can't be scheduled during the work day are scheduled PRIOR to the work day...early mornings. I am two weeks into this new discipline, and (right now, anyway) I am really digging it. I am determined to make sure my son (or daughter) has a father in the evenings, and only I can hold that sacred. I am going to do my best!

Today, I had a great early morning meeting with DJ. DJ is our new director of arts at ALC. She is taking on the leadership of four major teams in Creative Arts. I am excited. DJ is solid, and I believe she will bring a fresh direction for us while affirming everyone around her...she is a natural nurturer.
So, I am grateful...this early morning thing has some good omens so far : )

And, again...Happy New Year twelve days late.

After all, children should not have to save up for their parents, but parents for their children.
2 Corinthians 12:14

BTW, I hope Conan goes to FOX and makes millions.